Did you find someone you are head over heels about? Here are 10 classical signs you should go ahead to marry them.
First of all, this is for guys only but you may go ahead to continue reading. Also, here is the one for everyone if interested.
Every once in a while, you meet someone that feels your heart with so much sweetness. And if you are currently considering if the girl you are currently with is the one you should marry or not, here you will see some classical ways to tell.
Many people have different physical attributes that attract them to a lady. Many of which are practically not so important. It’s good to find a woman with all the body attributes you desire but oftentimes, you don’t get it all. However, there are some essential attributes you must look out for, and these classical signs are among those.
Finally, it is totally okay to be unsure about a girl you are interested in, but you should never be unsure about these classical signs you are about to see in this post. Once you find them, you should marry her and vice-versa.
10 signs (about her) that you should marry her
These are 10 signs about her – her behaviour, attitude, and capacity. In a later section, you will see 10 more signs about how she makes you feel that should make you know that she is the one you should marry.
1. She challenges you intellectually
Finding a someone to marry also requires that the person is capable of adding value to your life. You want a woman that can challenge you to think broadly about concepts, and open your mind to new ideas. If she challenges your opinions, not in a way of unecessary nagging but in a way to critically engage you to find reasons for your beliefs, you should go ahead to marry her.
2. She has ambition
Two good heads are better than one. If you are ambitious, you also want someone who is ambitious as well, and I see no reason why you should not be ambitious in the first place. A woman who has her own dreams and ambitions clearly have something to offer you and the relationship, rather than having the mindset of full-dependence on you.
Apart from deciding to marry her, you should support her dreams and ambitions as well as she supports yours too.
3. She is emotionally consistent
Emotional consistency is the ability to keep emotions in check or maintain a fixed emotional tone at all times. Women and men experience mood swings sometimes, but if she is often unable to separate these feelings from the way she relates with you, it could be a negative sign.
She should be able to maintain her emotions when you are angry or sad. And like you might have observed, many of these conditions apply to you as well. You should be able to do same.
4. She is honest with you
Honesty is key to the success of every long-term relationship. Your wife should be honest and open with you, such that you trust everything they say to you. If there is the culture of honesty among you both in the relationship, the union will feel like an unbreakable bond that others cannot intrude into. But if she is dishonest to you, chances are she is likely to commit mishap behind you.
5. She displays empathy
Empathy is the ability to feel what someone else is feeling; that is to see things from another person’s perspective. It is quite different from sympathy, the later of which refers to an abililty to have pity.
Empathy not only expresses sympathy but also finds a way to make things better because you try to feel it like it’s yourself.
Finding someone who displays empathy will help make life better and help you withstand the struggles and challenges that life may throw you later in life. And if the girl possesses this characteristics, go ahead, tick it off on your checklist, and proceed to marry without any further delay.
6. She focuses on self-improvement
As well as being ambitious, she should be keen on improving herself. She reads books that add values to her life, watch informative documentaries, and she is serious about her personal goals. When you marry a girl who is invested in improving herself, it gives you more motivation to improve on your lif too.
7. She trusts you enough not to feel pathologically jealous
Some level of jealousy is required in a relationship. It shows the partner that they love each other and would not want to lose themselves. But jealousy becomes pathological when it blows out of proportion.
If you find a woman who is secure enough for herself, and trusts you enough to know that she doesn’t have to feel pathologically jealous in the relationship, keep her. She will give you peace of mind in your marriage.
8. She makes an effort with you
When you are in a relationship with someone who makes efforts with you, your little efforts become exponentially great. She makes loving her easy because she loves you equally back. She appreciates you with gifts, gestures, words, and so on, just as you would do for her as well. This is one essential trait to look out for in a girl you want to marry.
9. She inspires you to be better
Found a girl who tells you what you can do better in your life, don’t let her go. It means she is doing her part in understanding who you are, and what your strengths and weaknesses are. A girl only cares so much if she is deeply interested in you.
10. She stays with you through it all
Along the way, you would make several mistakes, do things wrongly or imprecisively. But if you notice that she would stick with you through all these, never let her go without marrying her.
10 signs (about you) that you should marry her
The first 10 signs you should marry her above have to do with what she has built herself to be. These next 10 signs you are about to see are about how she makes you feel in the relationship with her.
1. She makes you feel comfortable being with her
No one is perfect but have you ever being with someone who makes you feel perfect about yourself? If she makes you comfortable being around her, and makes you express yourself freely, don’t hesitate to marry her if you are ready to marry now. This environment of openness is what gives rise to the strongest and sweetest marriage ever experienced.
2. She is the most beautiful girl you’ve ever met
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but not just any beholder. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder who loves you.
Do you find her the most beautiful girl you’ve ever seen or met? Not as though you don’t see other girls who are more attractive. They might be more attractive but she is most beautiful. Take note of the terms here.
A girl only makes you see her as the most beautiful girl ever, if she has shown you genuine love in one way or another, and if she has inner qualities that appeals strongly to you. So, if you consider her the most beautiful girl, it is a good sign she is the one you should marry.
3. You can’t stop thinking about her
You can’t stop thinking about her even when you are engaged in other activities. This is not like the butterfly feelings you experience when you are having infatuations. It is beyond that. You have this deep sense of care and concern for her even in the middle of the night. If all these checks, it is good sign she is the one you should marry.
4. You think about a future with her by your side
Why do you still have doubts about marrying the girl, when you are already thinking about a future with her? You probably just need someone to tell you that she is your future and you have to seize her how. If she reciprocates the feelings, make it known to her that she is the one you want to marry.
5. She breaks the list
If peradventure you have other girls you are seriously considering for marriage, this girl not only top the list but seem to break the list. What this means is that she makes the list null and void with only her in it. There becomes no other person before or after her. If you instinctively feel this way about her, don’t hesitate to let her know about your feelings.
6. She is interested in your stories
If she gives you signs that she likes to listen to you, it’s a good thing to hold on to. Your stories might be baseless but she attempts to understand you still, and sometimes laughs to your dry jokes. This shows that she is interested in your stories and she wants you to be better in your storytelling because that’s all she needs to hear.
7. You understand each other well enough
If she understands you very well already, it means she has learnt much about you over the years, or months, or for as long as you have known each other. Someone who never tries to understand your intent for doing what you do, even if it might seem unpleasant, is not someone you should end up marrying.
You understand someone by listenting to them, observing their actions and then correlating it with how they mean. The point will come when you will understand each other so well that you don’t need to say a word before your significant other knows what is on your mind.
8. You try to look good for each other when needed
You are satisfied with yourselves and your looks with or without makeups and special adornings, but when necessary, you find yourselves trying to look your best for each other. This could be for special occasions, special visits and so on. You do this because you see yourselves as the precious prize for yourselves, hence, the need to take care of your looks.
9. You never become intolerant with her
This might also be a sign of your emotional maturitiy and commitment to the relationship but it has a lot to do with her as well. If you find that no matter what she does, you are able to tolerate it, you are really interested in the girl. It’s easy to become bitter with someone who offends you but in her case, you don’t acknowledge her wrongs. It’s also a sign that she tolerates you as well.
10. You show her genuine concern
You can show anyone genuine concern when you are in love with them. As a matter of fact, you may have shown genuine concern several other girls in the past who later turned out rejecting you. But if your girl has all or most of the attributes above and you find yourself showing her genuine concern, don’t hesitate to let her know about your feelings.
Those signs/qualities apply to you too
For most of the signs you should marry her highlighted above, they pretty much apply to you too. For example, if you are looking for someone who can challenge you intellectually, or motivate you to improve yourself or get better, then you should also develop these qualities in yourself too.
Even if you have the resources to get married the next moment but you don’t have some of these qualities, you might need to start developing them too, so that when you find someone who truly loves you, you would not push her away with your own hands.
You don’t necessarily need to find all of them
If you are to strictly abide by this checklist, that would be a very difficult thing to expect from you. However, as most things require, once you a majority of these most important signs she is the one you should marry, and there is mutual commitment between the both of you, go ahead and let her know what you feel about her.
In any case, I wish you all the best in your relationship and marriage.
